THIS IS TOUCHING
After posting about ‘confusion destroys
destinies’, one of my reader inboxed me this story. She said, there was a girl
that was in school with her, the guy she was dating wants to marry a nurse so
she left her university education in her 2 level to do Nursing in a Nursing
school, well, she got rusticated from the Nursing school (perhaps Nursing is
not her thing) and the guy she dropped her university education for Nursing
went ahead to marry another girl that deed Nursing. She is now confused and empty
handed, she neither has her university education, a nursing certificate or the
guy she was trying to live her life and change her career for.
This is what happens when we try to live
our lives for others. Whoever that wont want you for who you are and what you
love doing is not meant for you. Don’t give up on your passion for anybody if
not you’ll forever subject yourself to life long of uselessness and work
unhappiness.
When loving someone deprives you of being
who you are; doing what you love doing (career), expressing your natural
personality etc. then you shouldn’t connect with that person because such
person is the wrong person.
If he loves what you do, not in pretence
but sincerely then he is your person. If he believes in whom you are and not trying
to change it but rather improve it, then he is your person.
Never live another man’s dream, never be
what others wants you to be, never marry whom another chose for you unless the
choice is mutual, there is no greater prison than been whom others wants you to
be, and marrying him who others wants for you. Be yourself, do what you love
doing, marry he who loves you the way you are and you love the way he is and
you’ll have less headaches and confusions in life
God bless you
Pastor Promise Ikpe
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