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IS PREMARITAL SEX RIGHT WITH YOUR FIANCE

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PRE-MARITAL SEX WITH YOUR FIANCE Is it a sin to be having pre-marital sex with your fiancé since you both with later be married anyway? What does the bible say. And the sons of Jacob came out of the field when they heard it: and the men were grieved, and they were very wroth, because he had wrought folly in Israel in lying with Jacob's daughter: which thing ought not to be done.  Gen. 34:7 Its folly to sleep with your fiancé even when there is a clear intention of marriage Its not ought to be done among Christian singles. The bible says its defilement that ought not to happen Those who hail from cultures or who have the ideas that women need get pregnant before they may decide whether she is marriageable or not are displeasing in the sight of God and such practice would eventually lead them to doom If he says if you don’t sleep with him first, he won’t marry you, he is not God’s will for you and wont marry you and if he does, your marital life with him will be ...

simple

AN EASILY DECIEVED PERSON IS A SIMPLE PERSON: when you decide you’ll not do a thing because it leads to sin then you find yourself doing it at the slightest pressure then you are simple person e.g. When you’ve decided as a Christian girl that you’ll never wear compromising trousers and shortS and revealing cloths and then you were admitted into the university (or you went to a bigger city) where that kind of dressings is the trend of the day and then you forsake your decision and joined the trend, you are a simple fellow When you’ve decided not to partake in alcoholism and then your friend shows up and takes you to the bar and before we say ‘jack’ you’ve started drinking, it means you are a simple fellow When you’ve decided on a vision and when trials came you gave up on such vision you are a simple fellow When you want to carry on a fast for certain amount of days and at the scent of food you postponed the fast to whenever, then you are a simple fellow A man who is not stro...

LEARN TO GIVE A FORCEFUL ‘NO’

While I was been driven back some days ago by the driver of a pastor colleague, he picked up a girl that was so unwilling to follow him to his place and sleep over. We needed a direction to a place that was why he called the girl. By the look of things, they are acquaintance but not deeply. By the time we were supposed to be done with her and let her go, this driver wouldn’t oblige her to alight. I saw in the girl the unwillingness to follow this driver home as insisted by the driver but she lacks the gut to vehemently say ‘NO’. Like this girl, so many of us had been made to do evil things we really don’t want to do but for the lack of the gut to say NO and stand by it. This world system forces us into evil, to stand for Christ you must learn the act of saying NO and acting NO. Joseph said NO to Potiphar’s wife but it wasn’t enough because she wouldn’t accept just NO, but he acted on his No by fleeing; yes, just don’t say NO, act NO when you are been enticed to do evil. ...

IN YOUR YOUTH

A foreigner that came to Nigeria love the plantation of corn, not been informed about the weather condition of Nigeria planted corn in November, the corn died, planted again in December and the corn died, got discouraged, but anyway tried again in January and the corn failed, he gave up but during march, he noticed that a corn seed was growing on its own in his farm and so he immediately tilled and sowed again, this time the corn grew and bear fruits. In Nigeria if you want the natural condition of the weather to grow your corn, you must sow between March and August. When we sow seeds in the wrong time of our lives and for the wrong motives, we won’t get result but when we sow at the right time and for the right motives, we get the right result. Though seeds are powerful but we must acknowledge that seeds bear fruits when sowed during seed times. When it’s the seed time? The youthful age is the seed time of one’s life. La 3:27 It is good for a man that he bear the yoke in hi...