THE MINISTERS MINISTRIES INTERNATIONAL (TMMI)

MY FATHER’S DAY ADDRESS I write to you fathers because you are the head of the home. You have to deal first with your wives; her too much talks, her constant nags, her illogical suggestions, her insensitivity to your physical needs, her ingratitude to all your endeavors, her insatiable nature for this and that, and your in-laws etc. You also have to deal with the kids; their school fees, shelter, feeding, naughty behaviors, clothing and toys etc. Many men soon bow under pressure that’s why they become irresponsible fathers and uncaring husband. They tend to divorce and seek comfort in a strange woman’s laps etc. as a way out of the stress of heading a home. But they later discover that though being the man of the home has its stress and challenges yet there is no joy or fulfillment to compare to the joy and fulfillment of such noble course. They later regret the wives they have divorced and the children they’ve abandoned. The strange woman would had brought guilt and p...

WIFE’S BEATING (my letter to married men) One of the most beautiful but complicated creatures God made is the woman and part of what women produce unconsciously is troubles; they are never satisfied and they don’t even know why they are not and the strangest part of it is that women will want something they don’t know and will be angry with their husbands for not providing that which they can’t define and they will keep talking and talking till some husbands use slap which ma y result to fighting and, other husbands just run away from the home but God gave us the solution to this problem in His word. Col 3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them. When the woman starts making troubles, she unconsciously wants to hear or see any action from her husband showing that he loves her (no woman has strong enough retentive memory to remember for long that she is loved by her husband therefore her body yearns continually for reassurance and that desire to be reassured is di...

*WHEN DID THE LOVE DIED?* fire feeds off fuels; liquid fuels like oils or solid fuels like dry woods. To keep a fire burning you must keep fueling it. The foolish virgins are those without extra oil. Dont be a foolish spouse and watch your relationship die due to lack of communication because communication fuels affections. Relationship is fueled by communication: never be too busy to keep the flame of communication burning. Always find the time to chat, call and text each other whether you are together or farther apart. You are not punishing your spouse when you break communication you are breaking the relationship. The major hinderance to communication is ego (pride). Who should text first or call first and when that sets in relationship breaks down this is why the prideful can't have any successful relationship. Giving too much attention to your job or career can also place a communication wedge; sometime miss your job appointments to keep your appointment with your ...

Do you know that God has what He requires from the husband? Do you know the first question God would ask you as a husband when you stand before Him in judgment? Do you know His greatest command to you as a married man who professes to Love God? It is ‘ Husbands, love you wives even as Christ loves the church’ Eph 5:25 In Christ’s love to the church It is sacrificial; He gave His life for the church (you don’t have the right to place yourself before you wife the day you got married, you must put her first in all things) It is forbearing and forgiving: He forgave the church over and over again and (you don’t complain and keep counting her wrongs, pray for her, learn to forbear and forgive, you need this grace especially) It is everlasting: He never stops loving the church and would never divorce the Church from Himself (cancel divorce from you mind, your love for your wife must last forever for it to be approved of God) Your love for your wife is a divine obligati...