SAY WHAT YOU WANT

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One of the reasons most relationship don’t progress to marriage is simply assumptions.
The guy has an expectation from the girl he hasn’t told her and she has an expectation of him she hasn’t told him
She’ll continually feel frustrated when he isn’t responding to her in accordance to such expectation vice versa and the relationship will eventually break up
Most relationship is fired over social media therefore the need to have a mature understanding of each other’s social activities is very important. Being online and ignoring your partner triggers lots of negative assumptions like he/she is busy with another person, or I’m just his/her fall over or he/she isn’t serious with me etc.
*_Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand.  Phil. 4:5_*
Be mature; say what you expect of each other for example. I expect you to greet me in the morning no matter how busy you are, send greetings, if you are online and won’t be able to reply be mature enough to tell me you are doing something else and may not reply immediately, if both of you are busy, have a chat schedule where you just chat yourselves without interference (it can be once in a week) etc.
Open up to your expectations and give your partner time to adjust as you adjust too to his/her expectations.
Don’t wait till he/she chats you up first, once you feel you need to talk, start right away, you are easing yourself.
God bless you
Pastor Promise Ikpe
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