when love dies in marriage

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WHEN LOVE BEGINS TO DIMINISH
At the wedding feast in Cana of Galilee (see John 2), the wine eventually finished, yes, in every marriage, there is always a time when the passion you have for each other will eventually diminish. This happens for both parties, what keeps the relationship going at this time is the discipline you have for yourselves and the morality you pledge before God. The man would want to explore and flirt with other ladies and the woman would want to listen to other men’s opinion of how beautiful she is.
This is the point where if God has not being in the marriage all the while, divorce becomes imminent. When your marriage begins to suffer love lost, it’s not time to be monitoring your spouse and accusing him/her, but it’s time to ask God to refill your home with love. This happens, even as ministers, we get to that point when we lose love for God, at this point we want to consider worldliness. We only make it out of this period by asking God to refill us with love for Him and the work of the ministry when we begin noticing this tendency to forget our calling. Stop accusing your spouse or investigating, that’s the wrong way of handling situations like this, start asking God to refill that which has diminished in your marriage

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