never marry as a payment of favor

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NEVER MARRY AS A PAYMENT OF FAVOR
A young girl came and bailed him out of his debts; he has taken a loan from the bank for his failed business and now faces the wrath of his bank, he was about to lose his house, cars and landed properties till this girl came into his life and cleared the debts. He didn’t know what to do for her as a pay back and seeing that she was having a crush on him promised her marriage. They married but life wasn’t the same afterward, the wife keeps telling him how she saved his life etc.
The one you seek to marry should help you when you are in a dire need but don’t marry someone because he/she helped you during your time of need; your future is no payment system.
Don’t let your parent as a means of maintaining family ties arrange marriage for you with someone that’s not your type and don’t use your entire future to pay someone whom you owe a favor back.
Your life is priceless, it worth more than gold and silver, your life cost God His life on the cross don’t because of gold and silver enslave your life to someone.
If you are in a relationship you don’t want just because you think being in such relationship is a means of paying back the favor rendered to you by someone, quit. Your life can’t be valued for any amount of favor or wealth.
Pay back favor with favor, money with money etc. and not by selling out your future and denying yourself the life of joy by enslaving your future with someone you don’t want from the depth of your heart.
God bless you
Pastor Promise Ikpe
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Extract from my forthcoming book ‘the ideal spouse’
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