HOW WILL I GET IF I DON’T ASK

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Most ladies want to know how they will get from their men if they don’t ask. Some use their bodies as a tool of collecting and as a result they don’t get as long as they don’t give. They wonder why he always wants sex each time you want something from him, it is because when he asked for sex you asked for money and so he sees you as a whore; someone that exchanging sex for money. Tell him no sex and don’t ask him for money.
Ladies, haven’t you been surviving before you met him? Don’t turn a normal boy girl platonic relationship into an erotic one because of you using your body to get your needs. Anytime you can’t give you can’t get.
In Moses’ relationship with the Jews God told him how to ask the people of things that he’ll need for the building of the tabernacle. Let’s see how God told him in ask in Exodus 25:2 2 "Speak to the people of Israel, that they take for me an offering; from every man whose heart makes him willing you shall receive the offering for me”.
Moses will tell them what he needs and the people ‘whose heart makes him willing’ is the person Moses should collect from. Don’t collect from people whom your body, connections, or any material benefit makes willing but only those who their own heart makes willing.
If your man’s heart doesn’t make him willing, don’t collect from him. Any person you have to manipulate by your body, words or promises etc. to get from him don’t ask of him, if you do he will hate you after you’ve collected from him.
Tell him your needs and don’t ask him to meet the needs, if his heart makes him willing he will solve the problem for you…that’s God’s style.
There can’t be love without giving, let him give base on the love in his heart for you and not the lust caused by your body on him.
Any man you manipulate to get from will lose his love for you when his eyes is opened because he didn’t give you from his heart; this why most relationship ends before it even begins.
Manipulative collection brings hatred but letting him decide whether to give or not without your manipulations by either your body or words etc. will foster love and make it grow.
God bless you
Pastor Promise Ikpe
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