BECAUSE SHE WAS HEARTBROKEN, SHE BREAKS HEARTS

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One of the readers that added me on whatsapp told me she has a problem having relationship with any boy. ‘I always hurt them’ she said. She hurt them by backing out of the relationship when the relationship is about to get serious. She has done it on several people and she regrets it because these people love her dearly and she loves them too during the stint of each of them. later she continued that she breaks these people’s heart because few years ago, the one she dearly loved, broke her heart by dumping her for her best friend, hence she is afraid all men would do the same and before they do, she unconsciously breaks out.
Her fear that the past would repeat made her destroy her present and prospective future.
Like her, many are punishing others and themselves because they fear what had happened to them in their past would repeat to them. They are afraid of committing and trusting because the devil keeps telling them that their former harm and hurt would repeat hence they have ceased to move on.
How does one overcome these? First forgive whoever harmed and betrayed you in the past; as long as you keep holding on to the past hurt and hate for those who caused it, you won’t be able to move forward in your life.
Secondly, forget the past, that it happened in the past doesn't mean it will happen again, all men are not the same, if they are the same their finger prints would have been the same, that this man betrayed you doesn't mean that man will.
Remember ye not the former things, neither consider the things of old. Isaiah 49:18
Don’t consider that the ugly past may repeat, when it comes to your thought, know that it’s the devil that’s bringing it up to hinder you from moving forward
Consider not the past because thinking of it makes the hurt and pain never heal.
God bless you
Pastor Promise Ikpe
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