SEX NEVER BINDS THE UNMARRIED

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I so much love him, I have been saying no to his sexual advances but later I began to fear that he will try to get it somewhere else and so I started losing the will power to say no. the first was like a mistake because it wasn’t supposed to happen but it did because I couldn’t get a vehicle to go home after I went to visit him so I slept over but after then it became part of our activities. Though I know it was a sin against God yet for my love for him and my fear he will dump me if I don’t allowed this illicit affair to continue.
My heart was broken even more and what I feared and gave him my body as often as he wants it in order to hinder from happening finally happened when he suddenly stopped calling and then asked me not to disturb him, as if it wasn’t enough, I received this text saying ‘its over between us, am with another’.
Relationship will continue to last till sex is involved, once sex is involved; relationship gets weaker and weaker till it breaks (it’s exclusively in marriage that sex strengthens relationship).
Sex doesn’t strengthen relationship, it weakens it. The reason you should say no to sex is because you wants him and wants to keep him. When you have any friend you are not sexually involved in, even if you never get married, your friendship will continue.
When a guy says, ‘if you don’t allow me, I will quit’ such person will quit anyway after having you and by saying that, has revealed his real purpose why he is in the relationship at first.
Joseph’s relationship with Mary led to marriage because they kept themselves althrough their courtship stage. Most relationship that sex was involved before marriage lacks trust. The man won’t be comfortable that his wife is outside his reach at any time and vice versa. This discomfort is informed by the thought that since she couldn’t keep herself when she is single, now that she is married, if left alone she wont be faithful  and vice versa.
Whoever doesn't respect your body now that he is not married to you wont respect your view when you are finally married i.e. if you make the mistake of marrying. Marriage is honourable only when the bed is undefiled or stopped to be defiled (see Heb. 13:4)
God bless you.
Pastor Promise Ikpe
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