BUILDING RELATIONSHIP ON WRONG FOUNDATION

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They were bring down a huge structure that by the looks of it has cost great wealth, why I asked, they said, a white man engineer came and observed the building after which he recommends that it be destroyed; he had discovered that the foundation wasn’t properly laid and if the building is to last the weather for a long period then it must be rebuilt and its foundation properly laid.
When we our relationship starts on a wrong footing and eventually led to marriage, then we risk lots of future dangers. When we engage in fornication and finally marry the person we are fornicating with, first there won’t be trust because trust doesn’t come with love it comes with life long show of fidelity to God. And when there is no trust, marriage cant be enjoyed. (Those that faithful to God will earn men’s trust but those that lives to please men will never earn men’s trust)
You risk transferring same spirit to your kids: a parent that fornicated before marriage would have kids that would have the tendencies to multiply fornication during their adolescent life. Your kid’s life at any stage of their growth would be the duplicated and multiplied version of your life at that stage unless God intervenes.
If you want to marry anyone and you’ve fallen into immorality with such person, better break that relationship and restart over before it leads to marriage.
If you fornicated with your spouse before marriage, better work on your past spiritually before the past haunts your kids.
Prayerfully uproot the seed of immoralities through the following steps:
Invite your kids and tell them that you did a mistake and won’t want them to do same.
Jointly pray with them rejecting every influence it will have on them.
Marriage is only enjoyable when the bed is undefiled during dating (Heb. 13:4).
It’s only when marriage is built on the undefiled bed that it’s resting on a proper foundation.
God bless you.
Pastor Promise Ikpe
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