WIFE’S BEATING (my letter to married men)

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One of the most beautiful but complicated creatures God made is the woman and part of what women produce unconsciously is troubles; they are never satisfied and they don’t even know why they are not and the strangest part of it is that women will want something they don’t know and will be angry with their husbands for not providing that which they can’t define and they will keep talking and talking till some husbands use slap which may result to fighting and, other husbands just run away from the home but God gave us the solution to this problem in His word.
Col 3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.
When the woman starts making troubles, she unconsciously wants to hear or see any action from her husband showing that he loves her (no woman has strong enough retentive memory to remember for long that she is loved by her husband therefore her body yearns continually for reassurance and that desire to be reassured is displayed through nagging). When they begin to nag is the best moment they need to hear ‘I love you honey’ and once you say that they become calm. But foolish men will want to use slaps and beating to settle the matter.
No saint of old was recorded that he beat his wife but rather you’ll hear ‘... and spake kindly unto the damsel. Gen 34:3’ also see Hos. 2:14 and Jug. 19:3
Speaking kindly to your wife during this moment of nagging and troublesome displays is the bible recommended way. Don’t beat your wife to shut her up, tell her you love her, buy her something then or even try a kiss and all the complications and troubles would be over. Ignoring her or running away is cowardness and leaves the problem unsolved.
God bless you
Pastor Promise Ikpe
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