HOW DOES LOVE START

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Someone said love starts will feelings, and I replied, love starts with knowledge not feelings. Infatuation starts with feelings, lust starts will feelings but love starts with knowledge.
Adam fell in love for Eve not because of his feelings but because of an awareness in his spirit, an awareness that stirred his feelings as he voiced out immediately he saw Eve ‘bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh’.
Don’t let feelings pull you into marrying anyone because feelings will soon fade, but let what you know about that person attract you into marrying such person. If you are compatible with what you know about a person, your knowledge about the person will stir feelings.
Imagine Adam, knowing deep down him that Eve is his bone and flesh, even if he doenst feel it as long as that knowledge is in him, he will treat Eve with all the care and attention and he will never consider divorce no matter the issue arousing. If a man wants to marry you, question him of what he thinks and knows about you, and you should try to know things about him.
Don’t listen to things like; you are sexy, you are beautiful etc. but let him tell you how relevant you are in his life and career and find out if its telling the truth. Sexiness and beauty will soon fade away but you relevance to his life wont. My Dad couldn’t divorce my mum at a point when there was crisis in the home because he had never done anything successful in life without my mum. When the feelings aren’t there, my Dad comes to my mum because of her relevance in his entire life.
If a man knows you only for your sexual relevance and only talk to you or consult with you only when he is in need of sex, flee from such a man. But the man that sees your relevance in the entirety of his life; career, relationship with God and men and day to day activities, then that’s your man as long as he is relevant to your entire life same measure.
God bless you.
Pastor Promise Ikpe
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