THE IDEAL SPOUSE

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I shall be writing on the ideal spouse though am tempted to break into two parts but for the sake of pinning it on google I won’t so please take you time to read.
THE IDEAL WIFE (Eph. 5:24, Ruth 1:16, Gen 18:12): sometimes ago I met a lady and on our first date she said am not exposed so sh wants to change the name of my ministry, wants to advise me and she doesn’t care to check if am right or not in what am doing, she believes God sent her into my life to tell me what to do and so she wants to impose her ideas on me. She came not to fall into my vision and commission in life but she came to change my vision and commission, this means she doesn’t believe in who and what I am and she wants to change me to who and what she wants me to be. The ideal wife is that woman that believes in your ideals and visions in life and believes that you are capable of handling it and not the one that comes to control what you think and do, not the one that thinks she is more intelligent and visionary than you, not the one that thinks her advices is a mandate not an opinion that can be neglected. A woman that cant fall in subjection of you and what you stand for is not your ideal woman. A woman that competes and not compliments your intelligence/visions is not your woman. When you are courting any woman, watch out for this. God will never send a woman into your life to be the head of your life; God will never give the direction of the pathway of your life in the hand of the woman. Any woman that comes to tell you what you should do in life is not your woman. The reason many men have divorced their wives is not because they have ceased to love them but because they don’t know who is in control whenever they are together. The women tend to challenge everything they try to say and do. Ruth said, where you go I go, your people shall be my people, your beliefs my beliefs, your God my God, yes, that’s how to be an ideal wife. Going where your husband goes without telling him it’s not the right place to go, believing in what he believes without challenging his believes, and serving God the way he serves God without competing with him; a woman that doesn’t want you to be alone in running the visions of your life is the ideal woman. Any woman that can’t call you her lord, don’t marry, husband means lord (Gen. 18:12). Ladies, if he hasnt done anything to earn your respect to the extent of calling him your lord, he is not your ideal husband. Sarah the mother of faith called Abraham her lord.
THE IDEAL MAN (Gen. 34:3, 2:23-24): the first thing Adam did was to woo Eve, yes, the ideal man is that man that never cease to woo his wife, he keeps speaking kindly to her and never get too busy of doing that. The ideal man accepts his wife as the best means of getting help in life (God made her your help fit) (NB. That helping a vision is different from changing the vision; let men be wary of women that came to change their visions in life but let them cleave to those that came to help their divine vision). A man that can leave all his family and friends just to be joined with you, the man that sees you as his flesh and bones is your ideal man. Women divorce men mostly not because of lack of money but when men stop wooing and speaking kindly to them continually.
God bless you.
Pastor Promise Ikpe
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