WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO MARRY (Gen. 2:15-18)

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He asked me, when is the right time that I should marry and how to I do I recognize who to marry? In reply I said, the first man was first a gardener, the very thing God wants him to be and be doing, yes, you must first be the man God wants you to be by doing the work He wants you to do in life or be pursing the vision He has given you to pursue. Have a direction in destiny and be pursuing such destiny. Mandela’s first wife left him because Mandela married her before he discovered his destiny in life; a liberator that is ready to give up all for his ideas of freedom. His first wife was against him taking risks everyday for the people of South-Africa, she wants him home always but the lady he married when he was now pronounced as a liberator who is ready to give up all supported his vision and joined him. When you marry when you’ve not discovered yourself and passions and visions in life, when you marry when you’ve not started pursing your identity in life, you’ll marry the wrong wife and the rest of your days will be misery because she won’t support you in destiny. So first discover your divine purpose and follow it up, let the woman know who he is going to marry and what he does then she can decide if she is ready to do such things with him all the days of her life.
Your wife will be your fitted help mate, so if you are doing nothing or pursuing nothing in life, you have no right to marry a woman, women are meant for men that have defined dreams they are pursuing or work they are doing.
God brought Eve to Adam not as his wife but as His help-mate, but Adam called her wife, as you pursue your dreams in life, as you do your job,  you wife will come as a helper and you’ll name her wife.
It’s only the man that is doing something or pursuing some dreams in life that needs help-meet, meaning if you do nothing, you have no right to talk about marriage.
God bless you
Pastor Promise Ikpe
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